I'm SirentheValkyrie, but I'm never on and I have the oldest version of the PS3 that doesn't have wireless and I still haven't run ethernet cable from my back bedroom to my living room.
So you can add me, but I have no clue when I'll get around to accepting it. PS3 doesn't have any exclusives...
That doesn't make you a terrible person at all. I think it's WISE to admit and realize that you are too selfish for kids.
Better to never have kids because you weren't ready, than to have kids and not be able to give them all the attention they need.